There is a game on social media that is called "to be honest". GK is obviously more conscience of things like this than her olde Oma but this morning she shared that she has never accepted a TBH before because she was fearful that it might be a less than kind remark. Turns out hers was a great comment from someone in her class. But you never know what kind of comment is going to be associated with the TBH....just like life and writing a blog.
|My apologies to this snake in the grass, just sayin'|
So when the tart chose to stalk my blogs and make remarks, cast aspersions on our Casa de Cuckoo life, and think that she was wounding us, she is wrong. All she has succeeded in doing is driving the fool's children even further away from him. At this point, he can't see his kids until 1. he goes through a court mandated reunification process of 1 year supervised visits (and those must be every week for 52 weeks), 2. pays the state of New Mexico back child support and even then if he were to complete that, he would have to get past the terrible hurt feelings of his children for his and the tart's treatment of their family.
The fool has quit sending child support which means the kids can't do the summer programs they wanted to do. And I suppose in his and the tart's world they are justified in not paying because, well I don't know why. Probably for the same reason he owes back taxes, he just doesn't want to have take care of his responsibilities. He has also sent a present to Ry for his birthday but hasn't sent GK a card, or anything for the past two years. I suppose that is because "they" have it in their minds that Ry isn't treated fairly here. Wrong. But Ry sure has a lot to say about his sissy not getting anything from the man in South Carolina. Yep that's what he calls the fool. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction....and that isn't just physics, it's Karma.
And yet, the fool thinks he will drop in for a visit this summer with the tart and all will be perfect between he and his children. The only problem with this flawed thinking is that it will end up being less than the "memory making vacation that they deserve" when the fool ends up being met by the Sheriffs officers and jailed for failure to comply with a court order and contempt of court. And it will cost them the back child support and court fees he still owes before he can get out of jail.
Some people's children and their lack of common sense, humanity and plain old lack of a moral compass. I could feel sorry for the pair if it weren't for the fact that I love both of my grands and think that the universe has given them a less than stellar role model for a reason. I expect that both sweet Ry and GK will continue to have a huge sense of doing what is right for no other reason that it makes them proud of themselves for being honorable and respectable.
I realize that many family's have to deal with situations like this. The Cuckoos are not unique.
But this brings me to "an attitude" in the title.
Father's Day will soon be upon us. I hate Father's Day. I always have. My own Dad was a less than an honorable man. In years past I have said that it was hard to walk into a card store and find one single card that said Happy Father's Day you old SOB.
I have that attitude about my father because I saw him treat people with the similar lack of moral compass as the fool. And it wasn't too long after my daughter married the fool that I saw the similarities with my own father's behaviors. The primping cockerel, the superiority over as he stated it "those people", the lack of motivation to provide for his family, the harsh actions towards his children, the cheating on, belittling of and mistrust of his wife. And in more ways than I can say in polite company. So when the grands have voiced their lack of affection for a man who yanked them around, let them go hungry, didn't provide an income, didn't protect the grands from his family and left them without electricity or heat or food, quit working and let his wife support him, but always managed to have all the creature comforts for himself, wasn't faithful to their mother, I have nothing but loathing for him. But............I don't understand their thinking that just because they speak bullshit that everyone else is fluent in that language.
We are not.
So this whole post is directed towards the tart who calls herself the Truth Fairy, please don't bother to speak. I will not even open another of your self serving, lying, attack emails. I know that this is not the only way I have of communicating with you but it is the last and best. And to the fool, Happy Sperm Donor day.....because there is no place in this existence that would qualify you to celebrate this day as a Father.