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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Oh my, I had no idea what was really going on ...............

Are you really back after my temper tantrums of late?
Did ya think, oh well I'll give the Olde Bagg one more go?
Are you the sweetest friends in the world to tolerate me?

If you answered anyone of those questions yes, then you are ubber tolerant and a loving human bean. I do so hate it when I have to have a headfrommybuttcheeks ectomy. But thankfully it was done with the care and concern that a true takes one to know one accomplished with a swift kick. The rollercoaster I have been on has been ridden by others and they knew where the off switch was.

Many of you came to my rescue with healing thoughts and deeds. Gave me my power back and well, look out world.....the meany, meany bo beany Olde Bagg is back in the saddle. I can absolutely guarandamtee you that I shall not be involved with that emotional vampire ever again.

I did something today I have needed to do for 6 months........6 months! I called a friend who I have been neglecting because I couldn't tell her my truth or share with her. Why, you ask? Because I am flawed and didn't want her to know just how flawed. She is like a mother to me. I have told her on many occasions that if I could pick a Mother, which goodness knows I would have loved to have had a choice, I would pick Ms. Mildred.....hands down, no question or arguement. And yet, I cut myself off from someone I love that much because I am flawed.....and ego centric and human and we talked today and all is well with the world.

As a matter of fact, I am fabu ya'll. She loves me even if I am flawed and said she missed me too and that we never needed to speak of it again. Now.....tell me, is that not gold plated wonderful. She forgave me, without stipulations or rules or hanging a dummy sign on my chest, or making me feel worse than I already did. She just chatted and we made plans and I love her so much. This lady is a true lady....and likes me anyway even if I am a heathen and broken and poor and flawed. I scored a life goodie today.

So the other junk will not be brought up here again. That junk is dead and gone. I don't need that drama in my life anymore. I will rant about more important things like ......... you see, I don't even have any rant in me right now......wait for it, I'm sure it'll come.

But for this moment......nanny nanny boo boo. I win, I score, I am okey dam dokey and I love it.

Get the net, get the net.


  1. Isn't it great when you speak to someone who pulls you up and reminds you how strong and wonderful you are. Hearts to you my friend, you're a rock.

  2. I accept you bitchiness and all! between you and Dark Mother I have a feeling of great blessings being given to my life and I know we will always be friends to the end of time.
    Peace my sister!!

  3. Whew, I'm glad that is over! Great to see you getting on with life. Sometimes you just need to ride the roller coaster. We don't appreciate the blessings without having travelled through the lows.

  4. you know what? if you were all sweetness and light all the time I'd have to go puke.

  5. yup, sometimes we're up, sometimes we're down....glad the teeter totter is on the upswing!

  6. Hopefully we can all have and be that kind of friend. It's how it should be.. flaws or not.

  7. Isn't that the elderly lady you told me about...used to take her out for lunch?? Well, sometimes you have to just do what you have to do...remember those damn fish heads...they always seem to float up when you least expect them, but then we deal with them and move on down the road, again.

    I'm glad you talked to her and I'm not at all surprised at her response to you....what's not to love????

    Take care, my crazy amiga...we's here for ya.


  8. Hi Linda! Never knew you also have this blog:-(
    So i gonna follow you here also :-)
    BIG HUG Donna

  9. Hey Lou-Lou...you know I always have my 'stake' at the ready...should he need a little 'persuading' ;o)
    Love you baby :o)


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