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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Day 10

10. Someone you need to let go or wish you did not know.

This is an easy one. With all the deception and hurt that has surrounded the knowing of my SIL, I do wish that he had never come into Shelley's life...................but if that were the case, I would not be the Oma to the most wonderful grands in the world.

Just another of life's double edge swords, yes?


  1. I know what you mean. I just got through a divorce and I swore I never should have married him. However, had I not married him, I wouldn't have had our amazing son. In retrospect, it was just as much my fault. I married him for practical reasons and not romantic. It bites you in the end. In fact, every decision you make comes back to haunt you. Even if you escape a marriage, you can never escape yourself and your own part in the mess.

  2. I feel the same way about my first husband, but I wouldn't have Squirrel and JR without him and for that I am eternally grateful

    I like what Autumn Forest said. Too true girl.

  3. Maybe that's the letting go part - he was there, part of knowing him was a gift - the grans - but now, he's not someone you want as part of your life. XO


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